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  • ABOUT
  • CODES
  • CREATE
1Pre-Code
2Attention Directing
3Action
4Difficult Situations
5Response
6 Interaction
7Information
8Youth Code
9Meetings
10Mood
11Constructed
12Connection
13Relationship
14Disengagement
15Negotiation
16Assessment
17Project Status
18Travel
6
Interaction

The story goes that the President Yeltsin and President Clinton were having an intense private discussion in the Kremlin. Suddenly a frantic figure bursts in. He identifies himself as the Minister of Finance. "President Yeltsin, I need your attention immediately. We have a big problem with the IMF. There is a need for immediate action." President Yeltsin waves his arm and says: "Code 6." Immediately the man calms down and walks out. A while later another frantic person breaks in. He identifies himself as the Foreign Minister. "President Yeltsin, we have a crisis with the Islamic nations. This will affect our southern areas. There is a need for an immediate discussion. This is urgent." President Yeltsin waves his arm and says: "Code 6." The man calms down and leaves. President Clinton is very impressed and asks what "Code 6" might be. Yeltsin tells him: "It simply means don"t take yourself so seriously." Sometimes in frantic situations there is a need for a quick and unambiguous signal that can defuse the situation. So code 6 is built around the above joke. There are things which are difficult to say directly because they are personal and may seem offensive. Having a neutral code gets over this difficulty. The code also covers more complexity than can be described in a word or two. The codes can also be used in alight-hearted way

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  • 6/1
    What exactly is the matter? Spell out the problem directly and simply. Summarize what it is all about.
  • 6/2
    You give me what you think my point of view might be and I shall give you what I think your point of view might be.
  • 6/3
    There are things we do need to discuss here. Let us find time to discuss them. It need not be right now.
  • 6/4
    Give me space. Don't crowd me. Don't pressure me. Don't keep going on at me. Back off.
  • 6/5
    Calm down. There is no need to be frantic or aggressive. There is no point in fighting about this. We can talk this through.
  • 6/6
    Don't take yourself so seriously. Don't overreact. It is not the end of the world. Take a broader perspective.
  • 6/7
    Cut the crap, what do you want? Never mind the preamble and background , what is it that you actually want?
  • 6/8
    Things are becoming too emotional. I suggest we take a break. We can discuss the matter later in a calmer atmosphere.

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