This is just a temporary hiccup. This is a very minor problem. Don't blow it up into a major crisis. Keep a sense of perspective
The Italians are good at having blazing rows in which the participants seem to be about to kill each other. Then twenty minutes later they are the best of friends. They seem to enjoy the hype and the drama.
There was a man who shot his wife dead because she persisted in crooking her little finger when drinking tea. Little things can become intensely irritating. They can be seen as 'signs', indications of deeper underlying problems. They can also be trivial unimportant things.
When we build up little things into big issues, we choose to do so. We do not have to make this choice. Code 13/8 is a suggestion that we do not blow things up out of proportion.
Little things may show a lack of sensitivity or a lack of consideration - but only if we choose to make those inferences.
