The plea here is for some insight into the relationship. Let's look at it. How is it going? This is not a suggestion that the relationship is boring or stagnant. The suggestion is that not enough attention is being given to the relationship. It is being left to look after itself. It is like the cows in the field saying, 'Let us look at ourselves. If we are indeed happy grazing in this field, then we are happy with the way things are.' Code 13/4 is not a complaint but more a 'maintenance' call.