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12/7

You are getting too intense. You are crowding me. Give me space or I shall back off. Slow down and let the relationship develop.

In practice it is rather difficult to ask an enthusiastic person to tone down the enthusiasm. So this particular code has a high use value. It makes the point very clearly and very directly.
Eating fast does not provide better tastes than eating slowly. Some people dislike being hurried along. Everyone has a pace which suits them-similar to a 'natural' speed when driving along a road.

Should the slower person hurry up to keep up with the faster person? Or should the faster person slow down? Code 12/7 suggests the latter.

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